I was right. The crowd was wrong.

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Have you ever been in a situation where you are almost certain of what you know but because every other person is not doing it, you start to doubt yourself? Well, it happened to me this morning. I know where the train stops but every other person was standing behind so I started thinking that maybe the train will stop behind. It didn’t. Continue reading

Great lessons…simple and true

Morning Story and Dilbert

Written by Regina Brett, 52 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio.

“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I’ve ever written.”

  1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
  2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
  3. Life is too short – enjoy it.
  4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
  5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
  6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
  7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
  8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
  9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
  10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
  11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
  12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
  13. Don’t…

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Let me paint you a picture: After graduation, what next?

Here’s a story for you:

“I just finished my degree in Computer Science and for the first time in my life, I’m not really sure what I’m supposed to do next. All the companies I’ve applied to want some form of experience (how do you get experience when you cant get a job?). They wouldn’t even let me work for free.

My ex-girlfriend just introduced me to this really cool program. I can get to teach computing (feel useful and get paid while at it), learn during the holidays (get experience and certifications) and get hired after the program. Maybe my future isn’t so bleak after all :)”

Taiwo, 2013

Does this story resonate with you? Do you want to help shape the start of something extraordinary in the education sector? Are you a recent graduate (<=1yr) or a soon-to-be graduate (final year) from Nigeria? Then send me an email at dhackdheolu@gmail.com to find out how to add your input to building this program.

Food for thought:

If you’ve ever wanted to add value to your nation, here’s your opportunity. Don’t let it slip by.

Life nugget:

Opportunity is not enough. Preparation is key.

PING! You forgot your phone!

Trying to be on time for a late night meeting, I hurriedly hugged my family goodbye, leaving them to proceed to the boarding gate. Ran a few meters through the walkway, skipped some steps on the escalator and I was on the platform waiting for a train to take me home. I barely missed the train as I heaved a sigh, waited for the next train and brought my phone out of my pocket. “PING!!! PING!!! You forgot your phone” I had left my other phone with my family.

Hopes of making the meeting dashed, heads down, I walked less briskly back to the terminal to collect my phone. But something else happened. Continue reading

When ‘Sorry’ doesn’t cut it

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We (most likely) all have that one person that keeps saying sorry for doing us a wrong- the same wrong- and every time, they are genuinely sorry. We accept them back or reach a point when we decide that sorry doesn’t cut it- everyone has a limit.

But sometimes, we are these sorry-saying people. And we hope forgiveness would be extended to us. Other times, we know the ‘sorrys’ have become excessive, we feel unworthy of forgiveness and we simply walk away.

In KJV-terms, ‘Herein is the mercy of God revealed‘ when He draws us back to Him in forgiveness, cleanses us of all unrighteousness through the Blood of Jesus Christ, and embraces us in love.

I pray that the Lord will grant us forgiving spirits because I know it doesn’t come easy for some of us. However, forgiving always is a commandment (Matthew 18:21-22).

Food for thought:

Imagine if we had to work out God’s mercy.

Life nugget:

Matthew 6:14-15 “14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: 15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

And there was static

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You know that long continuous beep that signifies that there’s nothing on the other end of the line- static- that’s the sound I hear right now. It’s the sound that one hears after goodbyes are said; not just any goodbye, but a goodbye that you don’t know when next you’d hug the person; not just any person, but your loved ones; not just any loved one, but a specially loved one- the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.

And I’m still going to hear more of that nothingness noise tomorrow, when more specially loved ones return home.

Sometimes, we can know beforehand when a goodbye would be said, other times, we can’t. The importance of cherishing every moment with your loved ones cannot be overemphasized.

Food for thought:

What’s the point of fighting if you’d regret it after the person is gone?

Life nugget:

Argue less. Embrace more. Abuse less. Encourage more.